Produced by Team EMGWorld
Sometimes we are blinded thinking we have to stay in relationships that aren't working or meant to be. The main reasons people refuse to end them is because either they don't think they’ll be able to find love again or they think there is no one out there better for them. Wrong! There is another somebody that is right for you, so don't be afraid to end relationships!
Kaleila J reveals five warning signs that mean ‘GAME OVER’ in your relationship.
Abuse Me (Ike Turner Syndrome)
Kaleila J: If they are causing any harm to you physically or even mentally with verbal abuse it is definitely time to move on. You may love them and see the good in them, but they have a problem they need to handle and you staying to endure it all is unhealthy and detrimental to your happiness.
When you move on, you are not only helping yourself, but helping them because they will have room to consider their next relationship and value what it means to really appreciate someone. You can't go back to them even if they are saying it will never happen again, because it will once you have opened that door.
Doo Doo Daddies
Kaleila J: This one is hilarious to me but so true, for the ladies... A ‘Doo Doo Daddy’ is a man that has a squad of kids by different women, especially if they are not even but a year apart. Look at the picture he is painting for you! He isn't stable with his decisions at all! What makes you think he is magically going to settle down with you after running around not using a condom with every new girlfriend thinking its fine to get them pregnant and just pay child support.
Some ‘Doo Doo Daddies’ can't even afford the kids and they will use new girlfriends that are willing to get things paid for. It happens but that shouldn't be a life that anyone lives willingly, unless you practice polygamy. Please take caution and know their background because this would be a sign that it's time to end the relationship because clearly he doesn't understand the value of one.
If They Are Stuck In Between The Two (Ménage a Tois)
Kaleila J: Meaning if they have someone else they are considering to be with, keeping them from fully committing. Know your worth, move on, and STAY GONE! I say stay gone because people often will notice that you don't need them. They’ll try to get back with you just to feel like they can have you again because you are confident and doing well. Sometimes it's not intentional to be a douche, it's just a natural reaction. Don't go backwards, always move forward.
Lack Of Communication
Kaleila J: Communication is a HUGE part of keeping a solid and REAL relationship. If a couple starts to sink in this department, especially in the "honeymoon stage" of the relationship, it’s time to abandon ship. You have invested so much time holding on to this "idea of a person." You slowly find out they are actually not who you thought they were. This could have been avoided if they were honest and open to communicating their feelings and thoughts.
In cases like this it makes it hard to end the relationship because TIME INVESTED can hurt. If there was communication in the beginning and it has started to change, then someone’s feelings have changed and they are not for you. Move on.
Lack Of Motivation
Kaleila J: When a person does not set goals as high as you do for yourself, it will never work. A relationship is like a business. For example, if your business partner is content with a sales goal of only 500 for the day and you are determined to reach 5,000, you are most likely going to see compatibility only with the next maiden or suitor that also sees your vision of 5,000.
A relationship should always be progressing with the goal of eventually getting married. You might be the person that could motivate them and maybe it will work. Otherwise, move on to someone you have no doubts about because it won't work if you see yourself questioning whether you want to start a family with the ethics they show.
Throwback - Mya ft. Silk the Shockker “Moving On”